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Programme

  • Tuesday, September 24th

  • Registration

    08:30 AM - 10:00 AM
  • Everyone into Savoy West

    10:00 AM - 10:10 AM
  • Mihi Whakatau supported by Te Taumata Tapu o Ngāi Tūāhuriri

    10:10 AM - 10:25 AM
  • Opening Speech - Linda Surtees, CEO Caring Families Aotearoa

    10:25 AM - 10:40 AM
    • Linda Surtees
  • MC Ron Mark - Welcome & Housekeeping

    10:40 AM - 10:50 AM
    • Welcome & Housekeeping
  • Brandon Mock - Creating an Atmosphere of Allies: Using PACE in day-to-day parenting

    10:50 AM - 11:50 AM
    • Keynote Speaker
  • Lunch

    11:50 AM - 12:50 PM
  • Sarah Harper - L'Oreal NZ

    12:50 PM - 01:05 PM
    • Caring Families Aotearoa Principle Sponsor
  • VOYCE Whakarongo Mai

    01:05 PM - 01:20 PM
    • VOYCE-Whakarongo Mai
  • Richard Rose - Life Story Books

    01:20 PM - 02:20 PM
    • Keynote Speaker
  • Break & move off to Workshop Sessions

    02:20 PM - 02:30 PM
  • Tuesday Workshops

    02:30 PM - 03:30 PM
    • Workshop 1 - Making the most of everyday moments to promote healing and recovery
    • Workshop 2 Gathering and holding memories of our children’s cultural heritage
    • Workshop 3 - Mikaira Pau The Importance of Cultural Connections for Tamariki in Care
  • Afternoon Tea

    03:30 PM - 04:00 PM
  • Rob Surtees & Nyvonne Krause - Picking Up the PACE - what's next.

    04:00 PM - 04:30 PM
    • Keynote Speakers
  • Caring Families Aotearoa Annual General Meeting (AGM)

    04:30 PM - 05:00 PM
  • Pre-Dinner mix & mingle

    05:00 PM - 06:30 PM
  • Dinner - Country & Western Hoedown

    06:30 PM - 10:30 PM
    • Conference Dinner 6.30pm Tuesday 24 September
  • Wednesday, September 25th

  • Welcome back - MC Ron Mark

    09:00 AM - 09:15 AM
  • Sarah Naish - The A-Z of Survival Strategies (From Chaos to Cake)

    09:15 AM - 10:15 AM
    • The A-Z of Survival Strategies for Therapeutic Parents (From Chaos to Cake).
  • Morning Tea

    10:15 AM - 10:45 AM
  • Rob Cope - Keeping Kids Safe Online

    10:45 AM - 11:45 AM
    • Keeping Kids Safe online
  • Mini Break Out - move off to Workshops

    11:45 AM - 12:00 PM
  • Wednesday Workshops

    12:00 PM - 12:45 PM
    • Workshop 4 - Shining the Light to ensure people are treated fairly: How the Ombudsman can help you.
    • Workshop 5 - Lynda Knight de Blois - Advocating for your Kids in School.
  • Lunch

    12:45 PM - 01:45 PM
  • Conference Kōrero Session

    01:45 PM - 02:30 PM
    • Discussion Session
  • CLOSING - CEO of Caring Families Aotearoa Linda Surtees

    02:30 PM - 02:45 PM
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Speaker

 Mikaira Pau

Mikaira Pau

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Te Taumata Tapu o Ngāi Tūāhuriri will open our conference with a Mihi Whakatau.

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  • Savoy West
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Mikaira Pau

E Tū Whānau

Mikaira Pau, a native of Ponsonby, Auckland, boasts a rich background in the family violence sector, with over 13 years of experience collaborating with chief executives, board members, and trustees of various NGOs and organisations. A graduate of Sacred Heart Primary School, Saint Peters College, and the University of Auckland with a degree in business, Mikaira currently serves as the e tu whānau worker at Te Korowai Aroha o Aotearoa Trust within the Indigenous Qualifications Framework.

With a diverse heritage encompassing Māori, Pukapukan Cook Island, and English Scottish ancestry, Mikaira also holds the position of Director at The Whānau Channel Ltd. He actively engages in cultural consultation and procurement across various ministries while using his influence as a social media figure to champion wealth creation and side hustle opportunities for disadvantaged youth and families.

In addition to his professional responsibilities, Mikaira is a record producer and content/podcast developer at Studio275. He is an entrepreneur and entertainer who has worked with Maori and Pacific Island men in Mt Eden and Paremoremo Correctional Facilities to address behavioral challenges. Mikaira is also a master of ceremonies and an advocate for positive change within his community.

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Linda Surtees

Speaker

 Linda Surtees

Linda Surtees

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Linda has been with Caring Families Aotearoa since 2010 and CEO since 2012. She has developed a robust and transparent support service that supports 4,659 caregivers.

She has a wealth of experience in the foster care sector and has direct experience in caregiving, which includes five years running a family care home with her husband.

Linda is a strong advocate for caregiving families to receive robust, collaborative support and training, to provide quality care for our most vulnerable children.

Her advocacy has led Oranga Tamariki and Caring Families Aotearoa to increase National Caregiver Training Programmes. She was part of a cross-sector group of practitioners with expertise in working with children and families and her knowledge was invaluable on the Expert Advisory Panel modernising Child, Youth and Family.

She has also been involved in developing the new National Care Standards and establishing the Extraordinary Care Package for children in Permanent or Whanau Care.  She continues today as Chair of the Extraordinary Care Fund Panel.

In 2019 Linda received an MNZM in the Queen’s Birthday Honours for her contribution to children and the state.

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  • Savoy West
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 Linda Surtees

Linda Surtees

Caring Families Aotearoa

Linda has been with Caring Families Aotearoa since 2010 and CEO since 2012. She has developed a robust and transparent support service that supports 4,659 caregivers.

She has a wealth of experience in the foster care sector and has direct experience in caregiving, which includes five years running a family care home with her husband.

Linda is a strong advocate for caregiving families to receive robust, collaborative support and training, to provide quality care for our most vulnerable children.

Her advocacy has led Oranga Tamariki and Caring Families Aotearoa to increase National Caregiver Training Programmes. She was part of a cross-sector group of practitioners with expertise in working with children and families and her knowledge was invaluable on the Expert Advisory Panel modernising Child, Youth and Family.

She has also been involved in developing the new National Care Standards and establishing the Extraordinary Care Package for children in Permanent or Whanau Care.  She continues today as Chair of the Extraordinary Care Fund Panel.

In 2019 Linda received an MNZM in the Queen’s Birthday Honours for her contribution to children and the state.

 

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Welcome & Housekeeping

Speaker

 Ron  Mark

Ron Mark

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We are very lucky to have Ron Mark supporting Caring Families Aotearoa. As our Master of Ceremonies for our conferences over the years, he ensures everything runs smoothly from start to finish with his charismatic and personable style.

Ron has worn many hats.  He was a former soldier, a commercial consultant, a New Zealand politician of the New Zealand First party between 1996 – 2008 and 2014 - 2020, and notably during this time, Deputy Leader, Minister of Defence and Minister for Veterans Affairs. He served as Mayor of Carterton from 2010 to 2014 and was re-elected to Mayor in 2022.

He was born in Masterton and was fostered with six Pākehā foster families in Pahiatua, saying; "I wouldn't have survived without them." He was educated at Tararua College from 1968 to 1970.

Ron is a lover of country music. In between his time in politics and Mayor of Carterton, and thanks to the encouragement and persistent prodding of friends and family, Ron produced an album dedicated to his grandchildren, the thousands of foster children in Aotearoa and their wonderful foster parents – Never Give Up.

Ron is a strong believer that it is your attitude that determines your altitude; Be bold, Stand tall, Set your goals high, Work hard and Never, Give Up.  This is a message that he has been sharing with care experienced rangatahi at L’Oreal New Zealand's annual Face Your Future event for 14 years.

His personal story of overcoming trauma, accepting the things that happened and not allowing them to define his future; to owning his mistakes, accepting total responsibility for them, and above all “Never Give Up”, is truly inspiring. It has taken him from being a young man on the brink of prison time to Minister of Defence and Minister for Veterans. 

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  • Savoy West
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 Ron  Mark

Ron Mark

Mayor for Carterton

Ron Mark has worn many hats.  He was a former soldier, a commercial consultant, a New Zealand politician of the New Zealand First party between 1996 – 2008 and 2014 - 2020, and notably during this time, Deputy Leader, Minister of Defence and Minister for Veterans Affairs. He served as Mayor of Carterton from 2010 to 2014 and was re-elected to Mayor in 2022.

Ron was born in Masterton and was fostered with six Pākehā foster families in Pahiatua, saying; "I wouldn't have survived without them." He was educated at Tararua College from 1968 to 1970.

Ron is a lover of country music. In between his time in politics and Mayor of Carterton, and thanks to the encouragement and persistent prodding of friends and family, Ron produced an album dedicated to his grandchildren, the thousands of foster children in Aotearoa and their wonderful foster parents – Never Give Up.

Ron is a strong believer that it is your attitude that determines your altitude; Be bold, Stand tall, Set your goals high, Work hard and Never, Give Up.  This is a message that he has been sharing with care experienced rangatahi at L’Oreal New Zealand's annual Face Your Future event for 14 years.

His personal story of overcoming trauma, accepting the things that happened and not allowing them to define his future; to owning his mistakes, accepting total responsibility for them, and above all “Never Give Up”, is truly inspiring. It has taken him from being a young man on the brink of prison time to Minister of Defence and Minister for Veterans. 

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Keynote Speaker

Speaker

 Brandon Mock

Brandon Mock

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Creating an Atmosphere of Allies: Using PACE in day-to-day parenting.

Children who have experienced developmental trauma feel intense fear and expect to be mistreated even within a safe and caring home. These children often need to control the home environment or “atmosphere” to protect themselves from what they perceive as threats. Brandon will discuss ways to use PACE in day-to-day parenting to maintain the caregiver’s preferred emotional atmosphere and become the child’s ally in learning to trust safe care. 

Brandon Mock is the Managing Consultant at Pyxis Family & Consulting Services LLC in Overland Park, KS, USA. For more than two decades, he worked in clinical and administrative capacities for organizations serving youth in psychiatric residential and outpatient behavioural health.  

 

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  • Savoy Ballroom
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Brandon Mock

Pyxis Family & Consulting Services LLC

Brandon Mock, ATR-BC, LPC, LCMFT, is the Managing Consultant at Pyxis Family & Consulting Services LLC in Overland Park, KS, USA. For more than two decades, he worked in clinical and administrative capacities for organizations serving youth in psychiatric residential and outpatient behavioural health. He provides individual, family, and group therapy as well as consultation, education, and training for parents and mental health practitioners in working with youth who suffer from the effects of developmental trauma such as mood dysregulation, disrupted attachment, and challenging behaviors.

Brandon received training and supervision from Daniel Hughes, PhD, the originator of Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy, Parenting, & Practice (DDP) and is certified as a DDP practitioner, consultant, and trainer. He has served on the DDP Institute (DDPI) Board and remains active with several DDPI Worldwide board committees.

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Caring Families Aotearoa Principle Sponsor

Speaker

 Sarah  Harper

Sarah Harper

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L’Oréal Group New Zealand has supported Caring Families Aotearoa since 2007.

With help from Caring Families Aotearoa & VOYCE Whakarongo Mai, they have run the Face Your Future program for 15 years. This 2 day camp of inspiration and motivation is for young people transitioning from care to independence, and has grown year by year and gained incredible support from high-profile speakers keen to be involved. This year it evolved with a name change to L'Oreal For Youth, and celebrated it's 15 year anniversary.

L’Oréal also generously gifts products from across their hair and make-up collections for foster families to enjoy. These are handed out at training and local events to our members.

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  • Savoy West

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  • Sarah Harper
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 Sarah  Harper

Sarah Harper

Corporate Affairs & Engagement Manager

L’Oréal Groupe, New Zealand has supported Caring Families Aotearoa since 2007.

With help from Caring Families Aotearoa & VOYCE Whakarongo Mai, L’Oréal Groupe have run the Face Your Future program for 15 years. This 2 day camp of inspiration and motivation is for young people transitioning from care to independence, and has grown year by year and gained incredible support from high-profile speakers keen to be involved. This year it evolved with a name change to L'Oreal For Youth, and celebrated it's 15 year anniversary.

L’Oréal also generously gifts products from across their hair and make-up collections for foster families to enjoy. These are handed out at training and local events to our members.

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VOYCE-Whakarongo Mai

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CEO Tracie Shipton

CEO Tracie Shipton

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VOYCE-Whakarongo Mai (VOYCE) stands for ‘Voice of the Young and Care Experienced – Listen to me’ was established in 2017. They are an independent charity that helps to advocate for all tamariki and rangatahi with care experience in Aotearoa/New Zealand. They exist to amplify their voices and ensure that they are heard – to positively influence their individual care journey and to collectively affect change in the wider care system. VOYCE was co-designed by young people with care experience for young people with care experience.

VOYCE runs local events and experiences to create safe networks and communities that connect care experienced young people and help build a positive care identity. Their whakapapa reflects a strong and unique partnership between young people, government, and the philanthropic and non-government sectors. They are co-funded by government and philanthropy partners.

VOYCE’s approach to tamariki and rangatahi participation mean they actively work alongside organisations in the care sector, as well as other groups in the community, building a support network around all young people in care. They have also established regional youth councils who promote the voice of care experience and related issues impacting young people.

They believe that it is only in working together that the vision of building a community of positive, confident and capable care experienced young people will be realised.

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  • Savoy West

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  • Tracie Shipton
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CEO Tracie Shipton

CEO Tracie Shipton

VOYCE Whakarongo Mai

VOYCE-Whakarongo Mai (VOYCE) stands for ‘Voice of the Young and Care Experienced – Listen to me’ was established in 2017. They are an independent charity that helps to advocate for all tamariki and rangatahi with care experience in Aotearoa/New Zealand. They exist to amplify their voices and ensure that they are heard – to positively influence their individual care journey and to collectively affect change in the wider care system. VOYCE was co-designed by young people with care experience for young people with care experience.

VOYCE runs local events and experiences to create safe networks and communities that connect care experienced young people and help build a positive care identity. Their whakapapa reflects a strong and unique partnership between young people, government, and the philanthropic and non-government sectors. They are co-funded by government and philanthropy partners.

VOYCE’s approach to tamariki and rangatahi participation mean they actively work alongside organisations in the care sector, as well as other groups in the community, building a support network around all young people in care. They have also established regional youth councils who promote the voice of care experience and related issues impacting young people.

They believe that it is only in working together that the vision of building a community of positive, confident and capable care experienced young people will be realised.

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Keynote Speaker

Speaker

 Richard Rose

Richard Rose

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In this Keynote address, Life Story Books - Richard will discuss the importance of caregivers recognising that children in care need to explore significant life events, and that of their wider family, to understand how they have come to be in care, and in turn the importance of Life Story Books.

Richard has worked with traumatised children and families since he was 17 years old, and in that time has been shaped by those he has journeyed with over the last 38 years. He qualified in Social Work in 1989 and since then worked in the UK in local authority child protection.  

Throughout his career, Richard has worked with children and their families in and out of home care and within birth family placements, to enable these placements to become healthy and nurturing. In 2020 he founded Therapeutic Life Story Work International (TLSWi) a new International Professional Community that impacts across the World.

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  • Savoy West
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Richard Rose

Therapeutic Life Story Work International (TLSWi)

It is a pleasure to have Richard back again to present. Richard has worked with traumatised children and families since he was 17 years old, and in that time has been shaped by those he has journeyed with over the last 38 years. He qualified in Social Work in 1989 and since then worked in the UK in local authority child protection and from 1997 with the highly regarded residential therapeutic treatment agency SACCS, including four years as the Clinical Practice Director of the Mary Walsh Institute.

Throughout his career, Richard has worked with children and their families in and out of home care and within birth family placements, to enable these placements to become healthy and nurturing. In 2020 he founded Therapeutic Life Story Work International (TLSWi) a new International Professional Community that impacts across the World.

Richard is an Adjunct Associate Professor of Social Work and Social Policy at La Trobe University, Melbourne, an Honorary Associate of Berry Street, Melbourne and an Honorary Associate of the Open Adoption Institute, University of Sydney. He is also a regular visitor to the USA, where he presents for Portland State University, DHS Oregon and ORPARC (Adoption Services). He is married to Paula and has two children, Ben and Callum.

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Workshop 1 - Making the most of everyday moments to promote healing and recovery

Speaker

 Nicola Atwool

Nicola Atwool

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Making the most of everyday moments to promote healing and recovery

The workshop will begin with an overview of what we know about the impact of trauma on brain development, the emotional and behavioural consequences for children, and strategies that promote healing and recovery.  This will set the scene for an interactive workshop in which participants will be invited to provide examples of challenging situations, and the information from the first part of the session will be used to explore ways of understanding and responding that can support healing and recovery.

Nicola worked for what is now Oranga Tamariki for nearly 20 years in a variety of roles, before moving into an academic role in 1994, working as a lecturer and senior lecturer in the Social and Community Work programme at the University of Otago.  

From 2006 to 2012, Nicola worked as a Principal Advisor in the Office of the Children’s Commissioner, before returning to the Social and Community Work programme at the University.  She finished her time with them in December 2023 and has recently begun a new venture as an independent contractor.

Nicola has been a Board Member of Caring Families Aotearoa since 2014.

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  • Savoy West
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Nicola Atwool

Associate Professor

Nicola has a particular interest in attachment theory and resilience, which she explored in her PhD. An ecological framework, the sociology of childhood, critical theory, and a children’s rights perspective informs her work. The goal of her research is to influence policy and practice to improve outcomes for children and young people exposed to adversity. 

Nicola worked for what is now Oranga Tamariki for nearly 20 years in a variety of roles, before moving into an academic role in 1994, working as a lecturer and senior lecturer in the Social and Community Work programme at the University of Otago.  

From 2006 to 2012, Nicola worked as a Principal Advisor in the Office of the Children’s Commissioner, before returning to the Social and Community Work programme at the University.  She finished her time with them in December 2023 and has recently begun a new venture as an independent contractor.

Nicola has been a Board Member with Caring Families Aoteaora since 2014.

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Workshop 2 Gathering and holding memories of our children’s cultural heritage

Speakers

 Richard Rose

Richard Rose

 Nyvonne Krause

Nyvonne Krause

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NYVONNE KRAUSE 

Gathering and holding memories of our children’s cultural heritage

Nyvonne Krause, Caring Families Aotearoa’s Kaitakawaenga (Cultural Advisor) and Richard Rose, the founder of Therapeutic Life Story Work International, will guide you through the importance of ensuring your child’s Life Story Book reflects their cultural heritage.

E koekoe te tūī                      The tūi chatters

e ketekete te kākā                the parrot gabbles

e kūkū te kererū                   the wood pigeon coos.

This whakatauki refers to three common birds in Aotearoa and the sounds they make. It touches on the importance of hearing many different voices – in other words, it is about the importance of diversity.

Every piece of a person’s life is valuable. Pieces come together to make a whole, and children in care often have lots of pieces that they need support with to put together. We hope to offer you some ideas about gathering those pieces for your child, and their experiences with you, in a meaningful way.

While our children’s memories are not ours to keep, we can hold them for our tamariki until they’re ready.

Richard Rose will be attending as an observer and supporter of Nyvonne's Workshop and to answer any follow up questions and to reinforce the importance of Life Story Books from his years of experience.

 

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  • Savoy East
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 Richard Rose

Richard Rose

Therapeutic Life Story Work International (TLSWi)

It is a pleasure to have Richard back again to present. Richard has worked with traumatised children and families since he was 17 years old, and in that time has been shaped by those he has journeyed with over the last 38 years. He qualified in Social Work in 1989 and since then worked in the UK in local authority child protection and from 1997 with the highly regarded residential therapeutic treatment agency SACCS, including four years as the Clinical Practice Director of the Mary Walsh Institute.

Throughout his career, Richard has worked with children and their families in and out of home care and within birth family placements, to enable these placements to become healthy and nurturing. In 2020 he founded Therapeutic Life Story Work International (TLSWi) a new International Professional Community that impacts across the World.

Richard is an Adjunct Associate Professor of Social Work and Social Policy at La Trobe University, Melbourne, an Honorary Associate of Berry Street, Melbourne and an Honorary Associate of the Open Adoption Institute, University of Sydney. He is also a regular visitor to the USA, where he presents for Portland State University, DHS Oregon and ORPARC (Adoption Services). He is married to Paula and has two children, Ben and Callum.

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 Nyvonne Krause

Nyvonne Krause

Caring Families Aotearoa

Nyvonne is Caring Families Aotearoa Kaitakawaenga (Cultural Advisor). Nyvonne's caregiver journey started when she and her husband and took on a voluntary role for Hato Petera College as Mātua Atawhai.  We then accepted the challenge of Family Home Parents for Child Youth & Family. 

Whānau took us to Perth where we worked as Professional Therapeutic Caregivers for an NGO and where I developed a true understanding of therapeutic parenting by attending every course I could.  

On my return to Aotearoa, I attended a DDP workshop where pennies dropped like rain for me.  PACE is a natural way of being that requires a simple concept, connection, and connection is a feeling.  And you can’t fake feelings.

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Workshop 3 - Mikaira Pau The Importance of Cultural Connections for Tamariki in Care

Speaker

 Mikaira Pau

Mikaira Pau

Details

Mikaira will help you understand the importance of Maori traditions and values for tamariki, and how these values also align with the DDP & PACE principles.

Mikaira Pau, a native of Ponsonby Auckland, boasts a rich background in the family violence sector, with over 13 years of experience collaborating with chief executives, board members, and trustees of various NGOs and organisations. A graduate of Sacred Heart Primary School, Saint Peters College, and the University of Auckland with a degree in business, Mikaira currently serves as the e tu whanau worker at Te Korowai Aroha o Aotearoa Trust within the Indigenous Qualifications Framework.

With a diverse heritage encompassing Maori, Pukapukan Cook Island, and English Scottish ancestry, Mikaira also holds the position of Director at The Whanau Channel Ltd. He actively engages in cultural consultation and procurement across various ministries while using his influence as a social media figure to champion wealth creation and side hustle opportunities for disadvantaged youth and families.

In addition to his professional responsibilities, Mikaira is a record producer and content/podcast developer at Studio275. He is an entrepreneur and entertainer who has worked with Maori and Pacific Island men in Mt Eden and Paremoremo Correctional Facilities to address behavioral challenges. Mikaira is also a master of ceremonies and an advocate for positive change within his community.

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  • Savoy 2
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 Mikaira Pau

Mikaira Pau

E Tū Whānau

Mikaira Pau, a native of Ponsonby, Auckland, boasts a rich background in the family violence sector, with over 13 years of experience collaborating with chief executives, board members, and trustees of various NGOs and organisations. A graduate of Sacred Heart Primary School, Saint Peters College, and the University of Auckland with a degree in business, Mikaira currently serves as the e tu whānau worker at Te Korowai Aroha o Aotearoa Trust within the Indigenous Qualifications Framework.

With a diverse heritage encompassing Māori, Pukapukan Cook Island, and English Scottish ancestry, Mikaira also holds the position of Director at The Whānau Channel Ltd. He actively engages in cultural consultation and procurement across various ministries while using his influence as a social media figure to champion wealth creation and side hustle opportunities for disadvantaged youth and families.

In addition to his professional responsibilities, Mikaira is a record producer and content/podcast developer at Studio275. He is an entrepreneur and entertainer who has worked with Maori and Pacific Island men in Mt Eden and Paremoremo Correctional Facilities to address behavioral challenges. Mikaira is also a master of ceremonies and an advocate for positive change within his community.

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Keynote Speakers

Speakers

 Rob Surtees

Rob Surtees

 Nyvonne Krause

Nyvonne Krause

Details

Rob, the Caring Families Aotearoa Therapist and Nyvonne, the Caring Families Aotearoa Kaitakawaenga (Cultural Advisor), will talk you through the latest training from Caring Families Aotearoa.

They will discuss the development of a new self-directed online platform, designed to guide caregivers through Part 3 of the National Care Standards, a training which will give you an understanding as to the standard of care every child and young person needs to do well and be well, and the support caregivers can expect to receive when they open their hearts and homes.

They will also touch on some re-designed training workshops and the importance of completing training with Caring Families Aotearoa, and how it can help you to parent your tamariki (children), once you understand the complex behaviours and emotions your tamaiti (child) brings, your parenting response will shift to a more therapeutic approach, and you will in turn see a whole different child.

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  • Savoy West
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 Rob Surtees

Rob Surtees

Caring Families Aotearoa

Rob is Caring Families Aotearoa in-house Therapist. Rob’s professional interests lie in Family Therapy and parenting children with attachment disorders. He has a degree in counselling, has completed study in Psychotherapy, and has experience in foster caring.

Travelling the country, Rob has delivered training in Kim Goldings “Foundations of Attachment” and provides more in-depth levels of understanding for foster carers. He believes anyone who cares for or makes decisions for children in foster care, needs to have an understanding of the trauma these children have experienced.

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 Nyvonne Krause

Nyvonne Krause

Caring Families Aotearoa

Nyvonne is Caring Families Aotearoa Kaitakawaenga (Cultural Advisor). Nyvonne's caregiver journey started when she and her husband and took on a voluntary role for Hato Petera College as Mātua Atawhai.  We then accepted the challenge of Family Home Parents for Child Youth & Family. 

Whānau took us to Perth where we worked as Professional Therapeutic Caregivers for an NGO and where I developed a true understanding of therapeutic parenting by attending every course I could.  

On my return to Aotearoa, I attended a DDP workshop where pennies dropped like rain for me.  PACE is a natural way of being that requires a simple concept, connection, and connection is a feeling.  And you can’t fake feelings.

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Conference Dinner 6.30pm Tuesday 24 September

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We look forward to seeing you in your best Country & Western themed outfits, to enjoy lots of fun, delicious food and dancing!

The Dinner will start at 6.30pm on Tuesday evening. We have a fantastic band, Kharamello, fronted by one of our amazing caregivers Nicole McLean, who will bring us a country & western theme to the evening. So get ready to bring your best square dancing, line dancing or just a good old boogie. This will be a great night for all! 

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  • Savoy West

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  • Dinner Poster
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Speaker

 Ron  Mark

Ron Mark

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  • Savoy West
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 Ron  Mark

Ron Mark

Mayor for Carterton

Ron Mark has worn many hats.  He was a former soldier, a commercial consultant, a New Zealand politician of the New Zealand First party between 1996 – 2008 and 2014 - 2020, and notably during this time, Deputy Leader, Minister of Defence and Minister for Veterans Affairs. He served as Mayor of Carterton from 2010 to 2014 and was re-elected to Mayor in 2022.

Ron was born in Masterton and was fostered with six Pākehā foster families in Pahiatua, saying; "I wouldn't have survived without them." He was educated at Tararua College from 1968 to 1970.

Ron is a lover of country music. In between his time in politics and Mayor of Carterton, and thanks to the encouragement and persistent prodding of friends and family, Ron produced an album dedicated to his grandchildren, the thousands of foster children in Aotearoa and their wonderful foster parents – Never Give Up.

Ron is a strong believer that it is your attitude that determines your altitude; Be bold, Stand tall, Set your goals high, Work hard and Never, Give Up.  This is a message that he has been sharing with care experienced rangatahi at L’Oreal New Zealand's annual Face Your Future event for 14 years.

His personal story of overcoming trauma, accepting the things that happened and not allowing them to define his future; to owning his mistakes, accepting total responsibility for them, and above all “Never Give Up”, is truly inspiring. It has taken him from being a young man on the brink of prison time to Minister of Defence and Minister for Veterans. 

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The A-Z of Survival Strategies for Therapeutic Parents (From Chaos to Cake).

Speaker

 Sarah Naish

Sarah Naish

Details

Bringing her true lived experience and an engaging, humorous style you will not want to miss this very special one-hour presentation that will discuss some of the strategies in Sarah Naish's recent release, The A-Z of Survival Strategies for Therapeutic Parents (From Chaos to Cake). 

Sarah is an experienced foster caregiver and adoptive parent with over 30 years’ experience. She has adopted five siblings and her experiences raising her children has helped form the basis of her knowledge.

She has developed models of specialised parenting that have had a national impact in the UK, increasing the recognition of the needs of traumatised children. She is widely recognised as a trail blazer in the field of Therapeutic Parenting.

Sarah established the National Association of Therapeutic Parenting (NATP) in the UK which now has over 10,000 members to provide a desperately needed hub of information and support to carers of traumatised children.

She is a bestselling author of books on Therapeutic Parenting, which have been translated into five languages. Caregivers across New Zealand and staff at Caring Families Aotearoa have found her bestselling book The A-Z of Therapeutic Parenting: Strategies and Solutions an invaluable resource, and we recognise Sarah as an expert in Therapeutic Parenting.

Her recent release, the A-Z of Survival Strategies for Therapeutic Parents (From Chaos to Cake), is an easy-to-follow, dip-in dip-out resource that addresses common challenges and feelings experienced by therapeutic parents and offers 80 practical strategies to help you cope and survive. 

 

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 Sarah Naish

Sarah Naish

Centre of Excellence in Child Trauma

Sarah is an experienced foster caregiver and adoptive parent with over 30 years’ experience. She has adopted five siblings and her experiences raising her children has helped form the basis of her knowledge.

She has developed models of specialised parenting that have had a national impact in the UK, increasing the recognition of the needs of traumatised children. She is widely recognised as a trail blazer in the field of Therapeutic Parenting.

Sarah established the National Association of Therapeutic Parenting (NATP) in the UK which now has over 10,000 members to provide a desperately needed hub of information and support to carers of traumatised children.

She is a bestselling author of books on Therapeutic Parenting, which have been translated into five languages. Caregivers across New Zealand and staff at Caring Families Aotearoa have found her bestselling book The A-Z of Therapeutic Parenting: Strategies and Solutions an invaluable resource, and we recognise Sarah as an expert in Therapeutic Parenting.

Her recent release, the A-Z of Survival Strategies for Therapeutic Parents (From Chaos to Cake), is an easy-to-follow, dip-in dip-out resource that addresses common challenges and feelings experienced by therapeutic parents and offers 80 practical strategies to help you cope and survive. 

 

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Keeping Kids Safe online

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 Rob Cope

Rob Cope

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Rob Cope is an author, documentary film-maker, educator and father of four. He has been passionate about educating parents about the importance of cyber safety and has released a film and documentary on the topic.

Rob wants to share his knowledge on topics like cyber bullying, social media, online predators, fake news, gaming and the developing brain, to name a few. He will also provide you with the solutions to handle these challenging topics.

All conference delegates will receive a one year’s complimentary subscription to “Parenting in an Online World 101”, an online cyber safety parenting course (which usually retails for $99 per family). Scan the QR code in your delegates book to sign up.

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Rob Cope

Our Kids Online

Rob Cope is an Author, Documentary Filmmaker, Educator and father of four.  

In 2020 Rob, along with his wife Zareen, released the documentary 'Our Kids Online". The film has been shown at various screenings, including New Zealand Parliament, DIA, the NCOSE Coalition to End Sexual Exploitation Annual Global Summit (during which they also presented on a panel), and the ‘See It End It Film Festival’ to help prevent exploitation and human trafficking (California, USA).

In 2022, the couple released an educational film series for New Zealand schools called "The Informed and Empowered Programme" which is now in over 200 schools with more than 1000 educators signed up.

Rob now travels the country giving "Parent Cyber safety Evenings" and speaks to more than 10,000 parents a year.

He has been featured on "The Breakfast Show" and "Paddy Gower has Issues", alongside numerous news articles about children and devices. 

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Workshop 4 - Shining the Light to ensure people are treated fairly: How the Ombudsman can help you.

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 Office of the Ombudsman

Office of the Ombudsman

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Shining the light to ensure people are treated fairly: How the Ombudsman can help caregivers

Do you feel like you’re not being heard? That your complaint has fallen on deaf ears? This interactive workshop answers the questions or queries that caregivers may have about the Ombudsman and how he shines a light in places that need to be seen. This workshop also seeks to hear your voices about matters of concern, of interest, or issues that affect caregivers.

 

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  • Savoy West
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Office of the Ombudsman

Ombudsman

 

The Office of the Ombudsman helps New Zealanders deal with public sector agencies. They handle complaints, undertake investigations and inspections, and encourage good administration. They also provide advice, guidance and training to public sector agencies, and promote awareness of their role to the wider community.

One of their roles is the enhanced oversight of the Oranga Tamariki system. The duties include; 

·         Deals with complaints about Oranga Tamariki – Ministry for Children and their contracted Care or Custody Providers.

·         Provides advice to Oranga Tamariki and its Care or Custody providers.

·         Receives information from Oranga Tamariki and its Care or Custody providers.

·         Coordinates his duties alongside the Independent Children’s Monitor and the new Children and Young People’s Commission.

·         The Ombudsman handles complaints about and investigates the administrative conduct of public sector agencies, including official information requests.

They also carry out a range of roles that contribute to protecting your rights, such as monitoring places of detention, and implementing the UN Disabilities Convention. Outside of New Zealand, they work across the Asia Pacific region to help develop international best practice.

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Workshop 5 - Lynda Knight de Blois - Advocating for your Kids in School.

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 Lynda Knight-de Blois

Lynda Knight-de Blois

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Advocating for your kids in Schools.

Lynda Knight-de Blois is an experienced educator who is the principal of Glenview School in Cannons Creek, Porirua. She has dedicated 30 years to education, working in various schools in Wellington, Auckland, and England. She will share with you how she has gone about implementing changes at her school and how important it is for all schools to understand trauma and put into place tools and practices that can help children affected by developmental trauma.

Lynda’s commitment to innovative approaches and student well-being has significantly impacted her school community. Lynda recognized the need for a different approach to address challenging behaviours among students at Glenview School, and in 2018 she visited schools in London, Finland, and Estonia to research trauma-informed models. She brought these learnings from overseas back to her school and has since focused on professional learning and development (PLD) related to trauma-informed practices.

Lynda’s commitment extends beyond her school. She has called on the Ministry of Education to ensure that all teachers receive proper training to understand trauma in children. She recognizes that factors like neurodiversity, stressful home lives, poverty, homelessness, and colonization play a role in students’ well-being and behaviour.

She has been awarded a 2024 Winston Churchill Memorial Fund fellowship and a principal sabbatical. In April 2024 she travelled to the UK to research effective strategies and approaches which support, re-engage and regulate secondary school students affected by stress, trauma or sensory processing complexities.

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  • Savoy 2
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 Lynda Knight-de Blois

Lynda Knight-de Blois

Principal of Glenview School

Lynda Knight-de Blois is an experienced educator who is currently the Principal of Glenview School in Cannons Creek, Porirua. She has dedicated 30 years to education, working in various schools in Wellington, Auckland, and England. Lynda’s commitment to innovative approaches and student well-being has significantly impacted her school community. Lynda recognised the need for a different approach to address challenging behaviours among students at Glenview School. In 2018 she visited schools in London, Finland, and Estonia to research trauma-informed models. She brought these learnings from overseas back to her school and has since focused on professional learning and development (PLD) related to trauma-informed practices.

Lynda’s commitment extends beyond her school. She has called on the Ministry of Education to ensure that all teachers receive proper training to understand trauma in children. She recognises that factors like neurodiversity, stressful home lives, poverty, homelessness, and colonisation play a role in students’ well-being and behaviour.

She has been awarded a 2024 Winston Churchill Memorial Fund fellowship and a principal sabbatical. In April 2024 she travelled to the UK to research effective strategies and approaches which support, re-engage and regulate secondary school students affected by stress, trauma or sensory processing complexities.

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Discussion Session

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Our last session of the day gives everyone the opportunity to come together and break into groups and kōrero the conference. You will be guided by a member of staff from Caring Families Aotearoa who will ask some questions for you to consider, and then discuss, as well as assist you if you need help with filling out the conference feedback form.

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Speaker

 Linda Surtees

Linda Surtees

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 Linda Surtees

Linda Surtees

Caring Families Aotearoa

Linda has been with Caring Families Aotearoa since 2010 and CEO since 2012. She has developed a robust and transparent support service that supports 4,659 caregivers.

She has a wealth of experience in the foster care sector and has direct experience in caregiving, which includes five years running a family care home with her husband.

Linda is a strong advocate for caregiving families to receive robust, collaborative support and training, to provide quality care for our most vulnerable children.

Her advocacy has led Oranga Tamariki and Caring Families Aotearoa to increase National Caregiver Training Programmes. She was part of a cross-sector group of practitioners with expertise in working with children and families and her knowledge was invaluable on the Expert Advisory Panel modernising Child, Youth and Family.

She has also been involved in developing the new National Care Standards and establishing the Extraordinary Care Package for children in Permanent or Whanau Care.  She continues today as Chair of the Extraordinary Care Fund Panel.

In 2019 Linda received an MNZM in the Queen’s Birthday Honours for her contribution to children and the state.

 

Contact Details

Samantha Lenik

Marketing & Communications Manager

Email:samanthal@caringfamilies.org.nz

Phone: 0800 693 323

Caring Families Aotearoa

www: Caring Families Aotearoa